Kutheni kubalulekile ukuba ubuntatheli boLutsha
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Kwixesha leendaba zoluntu, wonke umntu yintatheli. Ulutsha ngaxeshanye lungabathengi kunye nabavelisi beendaba. Xa uphinda uthumela kwibali lakho le-Instagram, xelela abahlobo bakho malunga neendaba zeendaba ozivileyo okanye uphawule kwiposti yentsholongwane, udala kwaye usasaza iindaba.
Ubuntatheli obunenkathalo kunye nokuveliswa kweendaba ngabom kuvumela ulutsha ukuba luphuhlise izakhono zokusebenza njengabadali abanoxanduva kunye nabasasazi beendaba ngokubanika izakhono kunye nokubanceda ukuba bakhe imikhwa eyomeleleyo.
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Sinolwahlulo olukhawulezayo lwemveliso kwaye ke iindaba esizityayo nezixabisayo ziyatshintsha ngokukhawuleza. Kufuneka sivale lo msantsa ngokuzibandakanya neendaba eziveliswa ngamanye amaqela.
Oku kusivumela ukuba sibaqonde ngcono abantu esihlala kunye nabo. Xa ukhetha imidiya oziveza kuyo, kufuneka yahluke. Ukuqonda kwethu okuqhelekileyo oko kunokuthetha iyantlukwano ngokobuhlanga, inkolo kunye nesini, kodwa iyantlukwano yeminyaka nayo ibalulekile.
Ulutsha lukwaliqela elinamava ahlukeneyo kunye nemibono enokuthi ilungise uluvo lwakho kwaye yandise imbono yakho.
Xhasa amaphephandaba abafundi, ulutsha podcast amaqela kunye nazo zonke ezinye iindlela ezimangalisayo zobuntatheli bolutsha. Qonda imbono yolutsha kunye nathi kwaye wenze ezahlukeneyo ngakumbi umphakathi.
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Ubuchule bokucingisisa bungcwatywe kwisiqu somntu indalo. Ukususela kwiintsuku zethu zokuqala, sicinga ngezenzo zethu ukuze siziphucule. Sifunda ukuba ukugoba amadolo kwenza amanyathelo ethu okuqala azinze ngakumbi. Amanyathelo ethu okuqala anconywa ngokuqhwaba okuthambileyo kunye nekhefu elifihlakeleyo kwaye siyamenywa kuhambo olutsha. Ukucamngca kusixelela into emasiyidale kwakhona kwaye yintoni emasiyicinge kwakhona.
Abantu abatsha benza lo msebenzi mnye. Ekubeni singekagxininisi kwisithethe, ubomi bethu bubandakanya ukufuna ukwazi ngakumbi kunye nesiqhelo esincinci. Simane sinamava amaninzi amatsha ekufuneka sijonge kuwo. Ulutsha lucamngca ngezithethe phambi kokuba lube luphawu lwezo zithethe. Inkqubo kaSocrates yindlela yokufundisa esusela kumawaka eminyaka eyadlulayo yaye yamkelwa ukuza kuthi ga kwixesha lanamhlanje ngabathiyori abahlonelwayo. Igama layo libonakala lithetha ukuntsonkotha kodwa ligxininisa nje ukubaluleka ngokufunda ngokuphindaphindiweyo 'kutheni?'. Nabani na owakhe wadibana nomntwana omncinci uya kungqina ukuba bayathandabuza ngalo mbuzo, kulula ukuwubuza kodwa akukho lula ukuwuphendula.
Kunganzima kakhulu ukuchaza kuba sineziseko zolwazi ezahlukeneyo kakhulu. Sihlala sithembela kulwazi olufanayo ukucacisa iikhonsepthi ekwabelwana ngazo. Kubantwana abasakhasayo, iikhonsepthi ezingabelwanga ziyalawula. Kuya kufuneka sichaze iindawo ezininzi kangangokuba sibeka emngciphekweni wokungaze sifikelele kwinqanaba. Xa sikunye nabantu abaselula, siyayiphepha le ndlela iphosakeleyo. Amava ethu alungelelaniswa ngokufanayo ngokwaneleyo naqhelekileyo ukuze anxulumane kwaye uwaqonde kodwa ngokwahlukileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuthandabuza izinto ezingaqhelekanga, iiyantlukwano, kunye nokuziphatha okubi.
Ulutsha luhlala luzibandakanya nabantu abanomdla owahlukahlukeneyo. Umhlaba wakho awuqhelekanga. Awuzibandakanyi neqela eliphakathi; akukho mntu uyenzayo. Kodwa ulutsha lwenjenjalo ngakumbi. Ngokucacileyo, ukuba ndikhangela umhlobo onomdla kuphuhliso lwezizwe ngezizwe, uncedo loluntu, okanye kwanokuxoxa, ndiya kukhangela kubahlobo endibenze bafunda eyunivesithi. Ukuba ndikhangela umhlobo onomdla kwibhola ekhatywayo, i-ballet, okanye i-cello, ndiya kumfumana phakathi kwabahlobo abenziwe kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Izikolo eziziisekondari zithatha ulutsha olusekwe kwindawo nakwinye into encinci, imema abantu abancinci ukuba bakhe ubuhlobo obahlukeneyo.
Njengomntu omdala, ngaba unabahlobo abaninzi abanomdla owahluke ngokupheleleyo njengoko wawunjalo ngoxa wawukwishumi elivisayo? Ndicebisa ukuba kubantu abaninzi, oku akunakwenzeka. Xa ndingqongwe ngabalingane kunye nabahlobo abanolwazi kwezopolitiko, ndiye ndingabikho kweyona mbono imsulwa yezopolitiko kubomi bethu banal. Ulutsha kusafuneka lungene kule nguqu ipheleleyo. Babuza ukuba yintoni eqhelekileyo, yintoni eqondwayo kwaye yintoni na jikelele.
Abantu abancinci bayabuza umahluko phakathi kokugweba ukunyanzela abasetyhini ukuba bagqume iinwele zabo e-Iran ngokwenkolo kunye nokunyanzela abafazi ukuba batyhile iinwele zabo e-Iran. Fransi ngokungakholelwa kuThixo. Ukutshintsha i-lens ukusuka ekuthobekeni ukuya kukuzimela kuye kwayihlaziya ingxoxo kwindawo yamathuba alinganayo kunye nentlonipho. Isusa izithethe zenkcubeko ekuqwalaselweni kwaye itshintshe umthwalo kwiindlela zokuziphatha ezinenjongo ngakumbi. Xa sicinga ngendlela esijongana ngayo nokungavisisani, sitshintsha indlela esilijonga ngayo ihlabathi kwaye silungise imithetho elilawulayo. Kulo mzekelo ungentla, oku kubonakaliswa kusivumela ukuba sixhase ukudityaniswa kwenkcubeko ngendlela entsonkothileyo. Kwintetho, akuyomfuneko ukuba sibalaselise ukuba zeziphi iimbono ezilunge ngakumbi; abantu abaninzi sele bethatha icala.
Sifuna abantu baveze ukuba kutheni ucinga ngale ndlela ucinga ngayo. Ngaba isengqiqweni? Ngaba yinkcubeko? Abantu abatsha banethuba elingcono lokusibonisa oku, okusivumela ukuba sibonakalise kwaye siphinde sihlole isimo sethu. Zisenza sicinge ukuba lixesha lokuvuma ukungavumelani okanye ukuba le yinduli esimele sifele kuyo.
Mna ngokwam, ndilinganisa enoba into ethile ibangela inkcaso kusini na ngokuthi ndiyijonge njengokuziphatha okubi okanye akunjalo.
Umkhamo, ityala okanye isicombululo sisenokungacaci, kodwa ubugwenxa bemvelo budla ngokuba yinjongo ephumelelayo. Ulutsha ehlabathini lonke luye lwakhuthaza uxolo. Kukho iipateni zabantu abancinci njengamandla okuziphatha okuhle avela ngamaxesha onke nakwilizwekazi. Kwakhona abantu abaselula baye baba ngamaxhoba atshabalalisayo, ingakumbi ngamaxesha obunzima. Andikhuthazi ukulungiswa ngokupheleleyo kweenkqubo nabantu abatsha abalawula yonke into. Ndicebisa ukuba sibamamele abantu abatsha kwaye sibathathe njengenxalenye ebalulekileyo yengxoxo nganye ngenxa yesakhono sabo esisodwa sokwenza abanye babonakalise.
Ukuba bendikubuza ukuba kutheni ubomi bungekho sesikweni, iimpendulo zakho zisenokuba yingcinezelo yezoqoqosho okanye yezentlalo. Ungakhomba kwimpatho engalinganiyo yobuhlanga, ubuhlanga kunye nesini sabantu abambalwa. Impendulo nganye iya kuba ichanekile. Le ngxelo iyinyani. Nangona kunjalo, impendulo inokukhanyisela ngakumbi ukuba bendikubuza ukuba kutheni eli binzana lithethwa. Ngaba kuyathethwa endaweni yokulungisa okungekho sikweni okuthile? Ngaba ubomi abuwonyuli umthwalo wokujolisa ukulingana? Kulo mzekelo uya kubona ukuba kutheni le mibuzo mibini iye yabuzwa: Kutheni iyinyani? Kutheni isetyenziswa?
Ngoxa impendulo yokuqala inikela intsimi encinane engekasetyenziswa, eyesibini ikhuthaza ukuba sicingisise ngento esiyithabatha lula. Eminye imibuzo inokucothisa inkqubo yomsebenzi, kodwa eminye iya kukubeka kwindlela elungileyo. Ifanelekile. Mema abantu abatsha kwiindawo zakho. Bakhuthaze ukuba bafune ukwazi. Bafundise iindlela zakho, ubameme nokuncinwa. Baya kukufundisa ngeendlela zabo kwanezakho. Ubomi abukho ubulungisa, ngoko ungayenza njani ukuba bube bubulungisa?
Unokucinga ngomsebenzi wakho kunokuba uwuthumele kubantu abatsha. Kwaye ukucamngca ngengqiqo kukhulisa kakhulu imveliso.
Nangona kunjalo, ukubonakalisa kwakho kuya kuba ngaphakathi kwesakhelo sakho sokuqonda. Uneziseko ezahlukeneyo, okulindelekileyo, kunye nokungakhethi. Le ngcamango ayinakuzibona iziphako kwizinto ezigqalwa njengezinto eziphilayo.
Uqeqeshelwe ukuthobela iinkqubo, intetho kunye nezimvo. Ulutsha kusafuneka luthintelwe koku. Yamkela iindlela zabo, iilwimi ezizodwa, kunye neengcebiso zabo.
Ulutsha lufuna ukucamngca, nto leyo ekhuthaza inkqubela. Imibutho isebenza kuphela nje ukuba iqhubela phambili. Yimvelo yomntu ukuchitha ubomi bakhe ezama ukuphucula ubomi bakhe okanye ubomi benzala yakhe. Abantu baye baphoxeke xa ubomi buthe ngxi okanye bubuyela umva. Uzinzo, ukhuseleko, ulwaneliseko, kufuneka sicamngce. Sifuna abantu abatsha kuzo zonke iindawo. Sineentetho ekufuneka sizenze, izimvo ekufuneka sabelane ngazo, kunye nemibuzo ekufuneka siyibuze.
